Getting rid of stuff is hard and some mistakes make it even harder. Check out which decluttering mistakes you’re probably making and some simple tips for avoiding them.
Decluttering is a hot topic these days and it doesn’t show any signs of slowing down. It’s a journey, and like any other journey, it’s a lot easier if you can avoid some of the most common pitfalls.
So today you get to learn from others’ decluttering mistakes! I’m sharing the decluttering mistakes ‘a friend😉’ has made and how you can avoid making the same mistakes too.
What Decluttering Isn’t
Dictionary.com defines declutter as ‘removing a mess or clutter from a place’.
Decluttering is not synonymous with simple living or minimalism. It’s possible to declutter without adopting either lifestyle. It’s also possible to declutter without getting rid of everything.
Decluttering can get confusing because you have Joshua Becker teaching about Becoming Minimalist, Maria Kondo coaching people through the Konmari Method of Tidying Up, and everything simple living and decluttering in between.
I’m a huge fan of the decluttering, but I don’t claim to lean toward a simple living or a minimalist mindset. Truth be told, I just hate to dust and clean, but I love a clean home.
I’m also a bit lazy, so having fewer things makes it quicker to dust and clean my home, and easier to avoid some common cleaning mistakes. To that end, I’m always looking for ways to make decluttering and cleaning easier.
Here are some of the top decluttering mistakes people make (in no particular order) and how you can avoid making them.
1. Starting a Major Decluttering Project Without a Plan
Benjamin Franklin said ‘A Failure to Plan is a Plan to Fail’, and it couldn’t be truer when doing a major decluttering project. Starting a major decluttering project without a plan leaves lots of room for distraction, frustration, and ultimate failure.
How To Avoid Decluttering Without a Plan:
Set yourself up for success and create a decluttering plan that keeps you working through the room in a logical pattern. Break the room into separate sections or tasks so you have starting and stopping points in case you’re interrupted during the process.
Always start with the quick decluttering wins to help you gain momentum and get you into the decluttering mindset before you tackle the bigger and tougher areas.
2. Not Using a Sorting System While Decluttering
Whether you’re doing a quick declutter or tackling an entire room, leaving the room to ‘put stuff away’ is a huge decluttering mistake and a surefire way to get distracted, which will ultimately derail your decluttering session.
You need to stay put and stay focused on the task at hand.
How to Avoid the Sorting System Mistake:
Set up a sorting system before tackling your decluttering project. One of the most widely used is the 4 box method where you label 4 boxes as follows; Trash, Put Away, Donate/Sell, and Store.
I use the 4 box method but instead of just boxes, I use a garbage can for the Trash, a large storage basket for collecting the Put Away items, a cardboard box for the Donate/Sell stuff, and a clear plastic storage bin for the Store Items.
3. Hanging On to Donate/Sell Items Too Long
One of the secrets to decluttering success is getting the items out of your house quickly and permanently.
Setting them in the garage in a box waiting to take them to a donation station or have a garage sale is not decluttering, it’s rearranging!
It also hazardous to your progress because it gives you the chance to bring the items back into the house.
How To Avoid Keeping Clutter Too Long:
Get rid of these things immediately or make sure it’s scheduled in the very near future.
If you’re donating things to a charity, put the boxes in your car to drop off the next day. Don’t put them in the trunk and forget about them.
Place a sticky note by the speedometer of your car, and a note on your bathroom mirror so you remember to leave extra time in your schedule the next day.
If you’re planning a garage sale, box similar items together, then tape the boxes closed and write the likely date of the garage sale on them. If the date has passed and you don’t have a sale coming soon, just drop the boxes at a donation station.
4. Trying to Organize Before Decluttering
This is one of the most common decluttering mistakes I see. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard somebody say ‘I’m so excited to start my decluttering, I stopped by Dollar Tree and bought all of these amazing baskets’.
If you already bought storage baskets, you’re not decluttering, you’re organizing your clutter! Womp, womp!
How To Prevent Organizing Instead of Decluttering Mistake:
STOP – Do Not Buy ANY Organizing Baskets!!!
You can’t possibly know what types, shapes, and sizes of baskets you’ll need until you have a clearer picture of WHAT you actually need to organize.
Remove the clutter first, place your things in the area you want them, then live with it for a bit before you create an organizing plan and start buying organizing baskets or systems.
5. Trying to Declutter Everything All At Once
Decluttering is a process, and a very tough one if it isn’t one of your regular habits. Trying to do it all at once will lead to frustration and overwhelm and can be the one blunder that makes you hate decluttering altogether.
How To Stop Trying to Declutter All at Once:
When creating your decluttering plan, break things into sections, then schedule them out. If you have a full day to devote to decluttering, divide everything into 20-30 minute increments with 5-10 minute breaks in between.
Need some help with time management, read more about the time blocking Pomodoro Technique.
6. Getting Wrapped Up In the Sentimental Items
Get ready, because this one’s a biggy! Sentimental items that you have emotional attachments to will be one of the biggest decluttering roadblocks you’ll face. They will be the items that overwhelm you the most and stop you dead in your tracks.
Sentimental Items will be the ones that cause you to stop decluttering completely or keep you from getting started at all. They can also have a deep emotional effect.
How To Avoid the Sentimental Decluttering Mistake:
Leave sentimental items for last and try some tricks for dealing with the sentimental attachments.
When you begin your decluttering journey one of the best things you can do is build momentum with quick wins. If you leave the sentimental items for last, you’ll have more of a decluttering mindset and will be more equipped to deal with and declutter the sentimental things.
7. Attaching a Monetary Value to Your Clutter
I used to be super guilty of this decluttering misstep. It’s human nature to associate the purchase price of an item when you start considering disposing of it. This makes it particularly difficult to part with expensive items even if you no longer use them and they’re just in your way.
How To Avoid the Money Trap Mistake:
Change your mindset! Instead of thinking about the money you spent on it, think about the money you’re wasting by storing it.
Come to terms with the fact that the money was gone the minute you made the purchase. The only monetary value the item has now is the money it’s costing you to store it in your house.
8. Keeping Things Just In Case
You hang on to things ‘just in case’ you need them.
I think the only people not guilty of this mistake are the truly extreme minimalists. Not a minimalist? I’ll bet you can look around the room you’re currently sitting in and spy at least one thing you’re keeping ‘just in case’ you need it.
Can you say ‘skinny clothes’?! This is one of the most obvious examples and I’ll be the first to admit that I’m super guilty.
I have a clear plastic storage bin with 5 pairs of jeans, 5 pairs of shorts, and 12 blouses tucked under my bed waiting for the day they fit again.
And that’s progress. I actually started out with 3 full hanging racks in an extra bedroom that I turned into a walk-in closet. I decluttered that room about 3 months ago and got rid of a bunch of those clothes that I don’t think I’ll wear again.
In another 3 months, my plan is to get rid of the rest. If I manage to fit into those sizes again, I certainly deserve some new clothes!
How To Avoid the Just in Case Decluttering Mistake:
This is another mindset thing. If you haven’t used it in 6 to 12 months, ‘just in case’ isn’t likely to come in a timely manner.
Think about the item and what you might need it for. Identify how often that’s likely to occur. Figure out if you have something else you could use in its place, or is there some way you could rent or borrow it if you do happen to need it.
9. Not Starting With the Room Bothering You the Most
I’m all about quick wins, but if you declutter a drawer in the bathroom and what bothers you the most is the kitchen counter, chances are the joy and momentum of your accomplishment will be short-lived once you walk into the kitchen and see the same old mountain of clutter.
Most people need to see positive progress to stay motivated and on task. I know I certainly do.
How To Avoid the Easy Way Out Mistake:
Start with the room that bothers you the most, but make sure you break it into manageable tasks. If the thorn in your side is those kitchen counters I mentioned, start with those to make the biggest and quickest impact and get your quick win there.
10. Decluttering Other Peoples Stuff
Want to start an argument or fast track your frustration, this miscalculation will get you there fast. Just try to declutter somebody else’s stuff and let me know how that works out for you.
You can’t make those ‘keep or toss’ decisions for somebody else. At least not without consequences.
These are personal decisions and regardless of what they say, people have hung onto things for a reason. They need to work through those reasons.
How To Avoid Decluttering Other Peoples Stuff:
Offer to help them, encourage them to declutter, but don’t force them or do it for them.
Helping can be as simple as sitting there and keeping them company while they’re sorting through things. It can also be as complicated as helping them deal with some pretty deep and raw emotions with each item.
I do make one exception to this. Clutter from the loss of a loved one. Don’t ever do it without consent, but if someone asks you to take care of it, don’t hesitate.
Sometimes that kind of clutter keeps a person neck-deep in their grief. If you find yourself helping with this, I suggest boxing the things up, taping the boxes shut, and placing them in the garage.
After a predetermined period of time, donate those boxes without revisiting what’s inside of them.
11. Not Maintaining the Clutter-Free State
Decluttering is a process and needs to be maintained. Don’t just declutter once and think that you’re finished, that’s a mistake you can’t afford to make.
Clutter will reappear and continue to collect until you create, and stick to a system for preventing it.
How to Avoid Letting Clutter Pile Up Again:
Create new habits that help keep clutter at bay. Create systems for dealing with and preventing clutter.
If the mail always piles up on the kitchen counter, create a command center system for dealing with it as it comes into the house.
Ensure Your Success by Avoiding Common Decluttering Mistakes
Before you begin any decluttering project, set yourself up for success by avoiding some of these common decluttering mistakes.
Create a plan and sorting system to move you through the process. Make sure that plan includes how and when you’ll dispose of decluttered items, what you’ll do when you get stuck associating a cost to things, getting sentimental, or ‘just in case’.
Start with the room that’s bothering you the most, don’t make the mistake of decluttering somebody else’s stuff.
Adopt some new habits to help you maintain your new clutter-free state.
What Decluttering Mistakes are You Making That I Didn’t Include Here?
Leave a comment below and share any decluttering mistakes I might have missed and how you go about avoiding them.